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In a marriage, there are expectations that people set for each other. Whether these expectations consist of a spouse taking the garbage out, a spouse calling to say that they will be late, or expecting that a spouse not set any rules at all; they are, all the same, expectations that individuals hope will be met. Relational expectations may either be prescriptive or predictive. Prescriptive expectations are one s beliefs about what behaviors should be performed or avoided. (Kelley & Burggon, 41, 1991) predictive expectations are one s beliefs about what behaviors are likely to occur. (Kelley & Burgoon, 41, 1991)

When it comes to relationships, it is important not to violate expectations, especially prescriptive expectations. Unless of course, it is a positive violation, then the actions exceed the expectations and illicit positive outcomes. Violations result in status degradation and re-examining the relationship . (Kelley & Burgoon, 42, 1991) It is found that discrepancies in expectations are higher in disturbed marriages . (Kelley & burgoon, 43, 1991) So, if there is to be marital satisfaction, it is necessary not to create too many expectation violations in the relationship.

Communication is the basis of all interactions. During interpersonal communication it is necessary that the participants reach a mutual understanding of what message each other is trying to convey. This mutual understanding is vital to sustaining a functional relationship. As with any relationship, marriage is no different. Each member of a marital dyad must have clearly defined, and understood communication between them. Satisfaction and stability in a marriage is achieved through communication and interaction between its members. A breakdown of interpersonal communication is positively related to dissatisfaction in a marriage.

How can this problem of dissatisfaction be taken care of before it begins to be a broplem within the dyad? Is it even a possibility to alleviate the rising divorce rate? Too many people are getting divorced today, and the institution of marriage is losing its meaning. It is no longer thought of as a bond, or a tie that keeps people together till death do us part .

I believe that by continuing research on marital stability and satisfaction many more questions will be answeres. Many more ways in which satisfaction is obtained will be uncovered as well. I know that there will never be an equation for marital satisfaction, but hopefully people will realize that communication is the key factor to having positive relationships. And by using good communication, satisfaction in those relationships will follow.

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